Nowadays, there are sadly lot’s of people who do not understand this:
Acceptance will never make you happy.
We starve our soul to make our bosses, teachers or parents or whatever show us acceptance.
We think that being loyal, or as loyal as one possibly can will give us a reward somehow. But it doesn’t.
Of course you may get a little treat here and there, but as studies prove: You just get addicted if there may or may not be a reward.
Therefore we keep on going through that path, being misled into serving and never embracing who we really are.
Karma (or any other believe)
I myself believe in Karma,
but there is a difference between living your life to please everyone, to please yourself or to please everyone else but you.
You may even have bad Karma for betraying yourself.
Why should anyone reward you for betraying yourself?
Think about it.
Again, congruence is key.
You may even make the most random decisions,
if you can tell “I made this decision randomly”, you are congruent, and therefore your are expressing confidence in what you do.
You create a scenario where you actually deserve what you want!
And here again, why would you want acceptance?
Short Term qualification? For what?
Be proud of who you really are and don’t be scared to make mistakes. These might only make you grow, if anything.
To be honest: Just ignore Blame!
Some people need to blame someone for everything to feel approved.
This is toxic.
My advice to you is to never blame anyone for doing anything wrong/right and move on.
If you don’t like their behaviour, leave.