First: What is a Shittest?
A shittest is the way girls test men to see whether a guy is able to understand her and most importantly able to handle her.
She may do little rapport to major breaks to see what you will do.
For example, if everything goes well and you both show your interest towards each other and then, she suddenly says you’re boring or pushes you off her. (how to deal with it is below in the text)
Girls never stop giving your shittests.
And how to pass every single one of them?
It is sort of a test for congruence. Check the article on congruence here
There are girls who give you harsh and very difficult shittests every once in a while.
Also there are girls who give slight ones very often, even various times a day, too!
Never try to impress the girl if you “kinda feel like it” after receiving a shittest, ever.
She won’t be as impressed as you think she might be. Or she might even lose interest in you completely for a while.
When you are free of outcome and actually being fun instead, you will pass those tests easily!
How does it work?
When a girl tests you, it can lead you to two paths:
- You show her, that you will not be clingy all of the time:This makes you more interesting, as she still has to chase you.
Most girls are like cats, as long as you play with them every once in a while and make them chase what they want, they will have a lot of fun.
Whenever you stop, she loses interest.
- You show her, that you need her.This only works with the following girl:
She may need security and wants to KNOW that you will stay with her.
This only works with girls who are looking for a relationship and don’t want to chase anymore.
They are more into a relationship than the chasers.
Still, she might shittest you every once in a while, so be aware!
Most guys choose this path out of instinct. They are scared to lose the girl and lose her through being scared. That easy!
What to do:
You are a MAN so stand your ground, don’t ever try to change yourself for her. (Both changing and not changing are also the same paths as above)
You have to keep shittesting her too.
Why should you be crying about her being mean to you?
If you do cry, then you deserve it.
She needs a man, not a woman. (most of them 😉 )