You heard it right, being an Asshole is important on the way to your Better Self.
Women love Assholes!
But what is an Asshole? Or: what’s so good about being one?
Well, being an Asshole does not mean to be an Asshole.
One has to set limits.
Being an Asshole doesn’t mean that you treat everyone like shit.
But is also doesn’t mean that you have to be nice to everyone either.
Here is the Key: the Asshole is NOT submissive, he has Alpha-Male qualities.
He takes his own responsibilities serious and does not run after Women.
No, he shows interest, without being needy.
“I have no time on that day.“
A needy guy wouldn’t say that.
Also, the Assholes tonality is much different from a Needy Guy.
Although the Asshole is being cold to Women, he turns them on by being himself and being self-centered.
You cannot shake his confidence that easily.
Think about it.
When she’s texting, do not reply to every single text, who are you? Her dog?
Who are you anyway to her, if you always show up when she needs you?
Of course it is a nice feeling to help someone, or to be around someone whenever you think of them.
But, man… Draw a line here!
Do not be clingy, when you clearly do not want to do things for her, just don’t.
She might even appreciate it.
You are the man, you are lazy, you do not want to care about women’s problems, dude!
See yourself as a man. No, the man in your life.
You take the full responsibility for your every action.
So why bother being the Nice Guy?