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How to deal with a shittest

February 13, 2015 Wlad C. Leave a comment

First: What is a Shittest?

A shittest is the way girls test men to see whether a guy is able to understand her and most importantly able to handle her.

She may do little rapport to major breaks to see what you will do.

For example, if everything goes well and you both show your interest towards each other and then, she suddenly says you’re boring or pushes you off her. (how to deal with it is below in the text)

Girls never stop giving your shittests.

But… why?

And how to pass every single one of them?

It is sort of a test for congruence. Check the article on congruence here)

There are girls who give you harsh and very difficult shittests every once in a while.

Also there are girls who give slight ones very often, even various times a day, too!

Never try to impress the girl if you “kinda feel like it” after receiving a shittest, ever.
She won’t be as impressed as you think she might be. Or she might even lose interest in you completely for a while.

When you are free of outcome and actually being fun instead, you will pass those tests easily!

How does it work?

When a girl tests you, it can lead you to two paths:

You show her, that you will not be clingy all of the time:This makes you more interesting, as she still has to chase you.
Most girls are like cats, as long as you play with them every once in a while and make them chase what they want, they will have a lot of fun.
Whenever you stop, she loses interest.
You show her, that you need her.This only works with the following girl:
She may need security and wants to KNOW that you will stay with her.
This only works with girls who are looking for a relationship and don’t want to chase anymore.
They are more into a relationship than the chasers.
Still, she might shittest you every once in a while, so be aware!
Most guys choose this path out of instinct. They are scared to lose the girl and lose her through being scared. That easy!

What to do:

You are a MAN so stand your ground, don’t ever try to change yourself for her. (Both changing and not changing are also the same paths as above)

PUSH!

You have to keep shittesting her too.

Why should you be crying about her being mean to you?
If you do cry, then you deserve it.
She needs a man, not a woman. (most of them 😉 )

Check your Congruence to fix your Confidence

February 7, 2015 Wlad C. Leave a comment

Sometimes we just “act” confident but project very insecure sings.
Here are a few tips on how to quickly check your alignment of thoughts and actions:

Check your Body language:

Are you standing upright with a straight spine?Fix your posture.
Does your face direct below horizontal or above? Above is good, below is a submissive sign of being unconfident or not feeling that you deserve doing what you’re doing.
Look up for a few minutes. This might come of a little arrogant, but it’s ok to look like an Asshole for a little while.
Do you unconsciously try to avoid keeping eye-contact?
Even the slightest escape is submissive action.
Don’t look directly into the eyes, you can look at their forehead, nose or even their eyebrows or chin. They won’t notice the difference.

Communication

Do you get interrupted quickly by the person you’re speaking to?
Focus on what the current situation looks like: Are you taking up as much space as always?
Does the one who interrupts you have his/her head up and keeps eye-contact longer than you?
People are giving you a weird face when you’re talking to them?
Fringe your eyes and give them a clear sign, that you understood that they are trying to dominate you right now. Just don’t let them do that and accept, that they don’t want a friendship with you and are only focusing on what they can get out of you.

What are your current thoughts and aims?

Are you merely trying to get a reaction out of someone?
You don’t need a reaction.
Assume, that the person you are confronting, is thinking positively about you all the time. Don’t try to force them to do so.
Do you think you have to make everyone else like you?
That means that you accepted being the beta-male.
This is alarming if this is not what you are and want to be.
You just want to take care of others?
You are trying to keep the focus or attention off you and focusing on another person.
This is showing that you have something to hide. Just don’t.

Cheers, Wlad C.

How to: Shortcut to Success!

February 5, 2015 Wlad C. Leave a comment

As you are going through Google, books, conversations, etc. you are looking for a nice shortcut that will bring you quick success.

You don’t want to spend your time for building yourself up, convincing people, go out and experience.

No.

You are here, looking for a shortcut to success, or whatever you want.

There is one.

Everything has a shortcut.

You want to know what it is?

EXPERIENCE!

But how do you gain it?

GO AND TRY THINGS YOURSELF!

Take small steps, but keep going, this is the only shortcut.

Cheers, Wlad C.

How to be an Asshole

February 4, 2015 Wlad C. Leave a comment

You heard it right, being an Asshole is important on the way to your Better Self.

Women love Assholes!

But what is an Asshole? Or: what’s so good about being one?

Well, being an Asshole does not mean to be an Asshole.
One has to set limits.

Women like Assholes, because those Guys do care about themselves.

But don’t be rude!

Being an Asshole doesn’t mean that you treat everyone like shit.
But is also doesn’t mean that you have to be nice to everyone either.

Here is the Key: the Asshole is NOT submissive, he has Alpha-Male qualities.
He takes his own responsibilities serious and does not run after Women.

No, he shows interest, without being needy.

“No.“
“I have no time on that day.“
etc.

A needy guy wouldn’t say that.

Also, the Assholes tonality is much different from a Needy Guy.

Although the Asshole is being cold to Women, he turns them on by being himself and being self-centered.

You cannot shake his confidence that easily.

Think about it.

How to:

When she’s texting, do not reply to every single text, who are you? Her dog?

Who are you anyway to her, if you always show up when she needs you?
Of course it is a nice feeling to help someone, or to be around someone whenever you think of them.

But, man… Draw a line here!

Do not be clingy, when you clearly do not want to do things for her, just don’t.
She might even appreciate it.

You are the man, you are lazy, you do not want to care about women’s problems, dude!

See yourself as a man. No, the man in your life.
You take the full responsibility for your every action.
So why bother being the Nice Guy?

It might even help to read up, what a Nice Guy really is. But don’t listen to what Women think a Nice Guy is. They will only tell you that a Nice Guy is someone who is cool to be around with, but I tell you: What Woman wants to be WITH a Nice Guy?

Let’s see at, what the actual definition of a Nice Guy is,

a Nice Guy is someone who does not do bad stuff to her. THAT’S IT! The is nothing more to it!

Now, I don’t want you to just go out there and be a total Dick to everyone.

This will only make you come off strange, uncalibrated and very introverted.

Instead, do keep the egoism in you and embrace being an Asshole sometimes.